well i just hooked up wit my grl last week. and she sits in front of me in class. we talked everyday and kiss all the time. she even told me yest i make her smile and stuff but today i saw her every period and i have class wit her where she sits behind me everything felt alright but i imed her rite now and she didnt respond and signed off. how many times a day should i see her so she wont get tired of seeing me? Should I ask my teacher to change my seat and move me to the other side of the room and flirt with the girl there to get her jealous? and is it ok if i dont call her everyday even though the relationship jus started.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gf already getting tired of me?
- Thread starter wabu07
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
oh no...
of course its ok that you dont call her everyday, you should only call her rarely, remember, if she wants to speak to you she'l call you...
as for the I.M dont speak to her everytime she is online, again, she'l message you if she wants to speak
of course its ok that you dont call her everyday, you should only call her rarely, remember, if she wants to speak to you she'l call you...
as for the I.M dont speak to her everytime she is online, again, she'l message you if she wants to speak
whoa, man, if you are serious and not a troll then you need some real help. Read the Bible ASAP and repent of your chumpish ways. Only Pook can save you now!
(and don't EVER call her except to schedule an in-person encounter! phones are for girls, same with AIM)
(and don't EVER call her except to schedule an in-person encounter! phones are for girls, same with AIM)
na man im not a troll. its been a we i had a girl cus i was busy trying to get my life in order. the whole puppy love thing got the best of me and i was having a nervous breakdown. well now that im calm and more focus i think i know what i have to do. just chill relax be the prize stop smothering her and make the time with her the best so shell want more. but not give her more. lol but thanks guys i needed to vent.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Honestly You should stop talking to her on aim alltogether just use the phone and in person. Why the hell would you talk to her on AIM shes ur GF dude! P.S if you dont talk to her for a day thats Perfectly ok man. Make her Know what it feels like not to have your presence.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
curious, how do you define hooked up?
look man, dont go all in, u just started, & no, dont call her every day, actually if it any1 call'n it sould b her.wabu07 said:
u don't hav 2 flirt wit uder girls 2 make her jealous, just let her no she not da only girl in u'r life (i hope), dont let her control u.
next time u think of call'n her every day, or start fantacysing ova her
***** SLAP U'RSELF
b a man....cheeeez!!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Making out or screwing a chick for that night/day :cheer:The Shocker said:
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
As for the person who started this thread..
What are you? mentally retarded? Why try and get her jealous? It'll prolly look stupid on your half and make things worse
Its just the first week right? Take it easy man it looks like you might be rushing things a bit. Give her some space, you don't have to hoard her 24/7
As for the calling thing keep it light call her once at night maybe every other day or something, 'cause i mean.. you do see her at school.. but however you want to do it man.
Don't keep the conversations over 40 minutes though.. thats too long and I'd rather talk to a chick in person if its gonna be that long
P.S.
AIM Is for little kids man.. Grow up!
What are you? mentally retarded? Why try and get her jealous? It'll prolly look stupid on your half and make things worse
Its just the first week right? Take it easy man it looks like you might be rushing things a bit. Give her some space, you don't have to hoard her 24/7
As for the calling thing keep it light call her once at night maybe every other day or something, 'cause i mean.. you do see her at school.. but however you want to do it man.
Don't keep the conversations over 40 minutes though.. thats too long and I'd rather talk to a chick in person if its gonna be that long
P.S.
AIM Is for little kids man.. Grow up!
just c her less and less so she will be chasin you heaps, i recommend u and your girlfriend should smoke some weed together, it will put both of you at PEACE, i hope that helps, i'm outta here to practice my DJ ****
i tend to think even if i am good (most of the time) to dealing with rejection (most of the time ), i realize you can't have the sweet (pvssy) without the sour (stupid chick crap that makes us go "huh")
i tend to think even if i am good (most of the time) to dealing with rejection (most of the time ), i realize you can't have the sweet (pvssy) without the sour (stupid chick crap that makes us go "huh")
As a guy who has been with his girl for three years, let me tell you this:
A. Talk to each other in person. Never engage in IM/email/phone/text messaging unless you're planning a date or you have scheduling changes. (The only time I'd permit that stuff is if you were LDR.) Talk in person.
B. You don't need to hang out everyday. For me, once we hit the two month mark we started spending about five days a week together and that worked for us. But at the beginning, 24/7 is overkill. Give each other some breathing room. Which brings me to my next point...
C. Remember that your girlfriend is NOT your life. She is a PART of your life. I love my girl very much and she is a large part of my life, but I also have friends who I see on a regular basis and person hobbies I enjoy by myself.
A. Talk to each other in person. Never engage in IM/email/phone/text messaging unless you're planning a date or you have scheduling changes. (The only time I'd permit that stuff is if you were LDR.) Talk in person.
B. You don't need to hang out everyday. For me, once we hit the two month mark we started spending about five days a week together and that worked for us. But at the beginning, 24/7 is overkill. Give each other some breathing room. Which brings me to my next point...
C. Remember that your girlfriend is NOT your life. She is a PART of your life. I love my girl very much and she is a large part of my life, but I also have friends who I see on a regular basis and person hobbies I enjoy by myself.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thats kinda rape. I would not call that a good solution.PUK said:
I am new. My input is limited. I read the bible and my succes has gone through the roof ( comparatively to how I was). I have had 3 girls practically raping me at once this week. I have come along way in 2 months. You can too! Read the bible.