"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gettn him away from her

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i met this reaaly hot girl hus goes to a different school than me. i am very good friends with some of her friends and we have been seeing eachother alittle more recently.

she has a boyfriend hu is in grade 12 (we are in grade 10)

so i am at this club one day and i see her dancing. i go over htere and we start grinding for a little. shes realy hot and an even better dancer, needless to say this was getting reaaaaly hot.
after about 2 minutes i dunno what happened since we were both pretty drunk we started making out, after almost 5 minutes of some seriouse action she takes her hand "away" and says i havea boyfriend.

we kept dancing and it was still hot but that night i could not stop thinken about her. I thikn i want to date this chick but of course she has a boyfriend

What should i do ta make her break up with her punk ass b f so i can get into that
thanks boeyeees
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Replies would b nice :p
 
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Realize that the "punk ass bf" got there first. Don't break relationships for a quickie, it's not worth it.
 
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Not worth it at all. You'll just cause more problems and it'd be wayy too much work. If she has a bf, just let it go. There's really nothing you can do about it. The guy's a senior anyways..
 
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thanks for the advice dons, besides i have a feelingg they will break up soon when he goes into collage
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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