"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gettn him away from her

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i met this reaaly hot girl hus goes to a different school than me. i am very good friends with some of her friends and we have been seeing eachother alittle more recently.

she has a boyfriend hu is in grade 12 (we are in grade 10)

so i am at this club one day and i see her dancing. i go over htere and we start grinding for a little. shes realy hot and an even better dancer, needless to say this was getting reaaaaly hot.
after about 2 minutes i dunno what happened since we were both pretty drunk we started making out, after almost 5 minutes of some seriouse action she takes her hand "away" and says i havea boyfriend.

we kept dancing and it was still hot but that night i could not stop thinken about her. I thikn i want to date this chick but of course she has a boyfriend

What should i do ta make her break up with her punk ass b f so i can get into that
thanks boeyeees
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Replies would b nice :p
 

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Realize that the "punk ass bf" got there first. Don't break relationships for a quickie, it's not worth it.
 

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Not worth it at all. You'll just cause more problems and it'd be wayy too much work. If she has a bf, just let it go. There's really nothing you can do about it. The guy's a senior anyways..
 

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thanks for the advice dons, besides i have a feelingg they will break up soon when he goes into collage
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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