"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting your stuff back?

StoneyRU

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Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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iamnobody

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StoneyRU said:
Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
If the items were gifts, then no. Assume responsibility and forget about those items.
If it's stuff you need, left there before the break, then by all means, yes. They are yours.
 
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