"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting your stuff back?

StoneyRU

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Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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iamnobody

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StoneyRU said:
Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
If the items were gifts, then no. Assume responsibility and forget about those items.
If it's stuff you need, left there before the break, then by all means, yes. They are yours.
 
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