"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting your stuff back?

StoneyRU

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Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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iamnobody

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StoneyRU said:
Quick question-

After a break up do you guys ask for your gifts back?

Recently broke it off with a girl and gave her a few things id like to have back for myself. Worth it to say hey i want them back?
If the items were gifts, then no. Assume responsibility and forget about those items.
If it's stuff you need, left there before the break, then by all means, yes. They are yours.
 
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