"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Getting your gf to talk dirty

OnTheWayUp

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Hey people, so I've now been in a relationship with my new gf for almost 2 months (we were seeing each other for around 2 months prior to going official). She's dedicated in the bedroom and responds very well to dominance, but she remains a little too shy and inhibited behind closed doors for my liking. She claims I am her first, and whether this is true or not, she is plainly very inexperienced.

When she talks about sex (only rarely that she verbalises these things), she is often shy and giggly, and will sometimes follow a sexual remark by teasing me to the point of insulting me. Today she showed me her vibrator collection (without being prompted at all) and gave me a list of the places she wants us to have sex before we graduate (again unprompted), which was really cool. I'd like her to be more responsive to my dirty talk during sex though. It's a bit of a boner-killer when your gf gives one-word answers to epic dominant dirty talk like "I know you've been thinking about my c0ck inside your little pu$$y all day." (Credit: Sex God Method)

Any hints?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cablecow15

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if I know they don't know much ill spend some time telling them a lot of turn ons turn offs and why they i like certain things , I mean if you have a talk like that with her , and tell her you love having your d!ck complimented she will , prolly try it out. if she does , make sure to reward her with something she likes ( there should be plenty , prolly quite a bit she doesn't know about yet)

Ive even heard of friends , doing a particular action , such as rubbing both of a girls ears , before they eat her out or make her orgasm , then every time after when they rubber both ears , she would get wet immediately
(kinda like your own Pavlov's drooling dog experiment )
 

Night-hawk

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That's called anchoring in NLP lingo
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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