"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting your gf to talk dirty

OnTheWayUp

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Hey people, so I've now been in a relationship with my new gf for almost 2 months (we were seeing each other for around 2 months prior to going official). She's dedicated in the bedroom and responds very well to dominance, but she remains a little too shy and inhibited behind closed doors for my liking. She claims I am her first, and whether this is true or not, she is plainly very inexperienced.

When she talks about sex (only rarely that she verbalises these things), she is often shy and giggly, and will sometimes follow a sexual remark by teasing me to the point of insulting me. Today she showed me her vibrator collection (without being prompted at all) and gave me a list of the places she wants us to have sex before we graduate (again unprompted), which was really cool. I'd like her to be more responsive to my dirty talk during sex though. It's a bit of a boner-killer when your gf gives one-word answers to epic dominant dirty talk like "I know you've been thinking about my c0ck inside your little pu$$y all day." (Credit: Sex God Method)

Any hints?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cablecow15

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if I know they don't know much ill spend some time telling them a lot of turn ons turn offs and why they i like certain things , I mean if you have a talk like that with her , and tell her you love having your d!ck complimented she will , prolly try it out. if she does , make sure to reward her with something she likes ( there should be plenty , prolly quite a bit she doesn't know about yet)

Ive even heard of friends , doing a particular action , such as rubbing both of a girls ears , before they eat her out or make her orgasm , then every time after when they rubber both ears , she would get wet immediately
(kinda like your own Pavlov's drooling dog experiment )
 

Night-hawk

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That's called anchoring in NLP lingo
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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