Now I'm in a little predicament here guys. Its about the shy, quiet girl. Now i've known this girl for a while b/c I was in a coed-fraternity thing with her, never really paid much attention to her and vice versa.......long story short somehow I begun hanging out w/ her friends a few times.
First off I've decided I want this chick. Second of all, I didnt show off my best personality when i first talked to her at some parties b/c one of my friends was trying to get with her so i respected that and didn't do any djing. Well, he ended up getting a g/f, so he stopped with her. Now I have the greenlight.
I havent begun any djing yet b/c i havent gotten a chance to. Only 2 times i've hung w/ when i wanted her was for an hour at my b-day party (we were both super drunk so didnt matter), and at lunch with other friends. Yet this isn't the situation where I dont know the person, so i have to build rapport, and then kino her to get her comfortable. She's very quiet, maybe somewhat shy. All the djing i've learned so far as been w/ girls you just meet.
My question is, do I have to approach this situation differently ? I want this for a relationship, not for **** buddy. I already hvae a **** buddy, dont need another. All this djing so far is how to get girls into bed. Yah, i can do that, not perfect at it, but i'm not a complete afc either. I'm in college guys, so any advice how to work this situation would be nice. If i work it the same as any other dj situation, feel free to tell me. If not, speak up.
First off I've decided I want this chick. Second of all, I didnt show off my best personality when i first talked to her at some parties b/c one of my friends was trying to get with her so i respected that and didn't do any djing. Well, he ended up getting a g/f, so he stopped with her. Now I have the greenlight.
I havent begun any djing yet b/c i havent gotten a chance to. Only 2 times i've hung w/ when i wanted her was for an hour at my b-day party (we were both super drunk so didnt matter), and at lunch with other friends. Yet this isn't the situation where I dont know the person, so i have to build rapport, and then kino her to get her comfortable. She's very quiet, maybe somewhat shy. All the djing i've learned so far as been w/ girls you just meet.
My question is, do I have to approach this situation differently ? I want this for a relationship, not for **** buddy. I already hvae a **** buddy, dont need another. All this djing so far is how to get girls into bed. Yah, i can do that, not perfect at it, but i'm not a complete afc either. I'm in college guys, so any advice how to work this situation would be nice. If i work it the same as any other dj situation, feel free to tell me. If not, speak up.