Getting with ex's friend

[brian123]

I dated a girl for a few years, and broke up with her ~3 years ago. She always had this really good friend who I thought was cute. After a few years of not seeing her, I ran into this friend last night. We talked/hung out for a while (I still have her # from years back)

Is this a worthwhile endeavor, and if so how should I approach it? Or is it just a lost cause.

 

[amoka]

Why did you break-up? Think about this and call her.

 

[brian123]

Why did you break-up? Think about this and call her.

Just to clarify, I am in no way trying to get back with my ex. I am trying to get with my ex's friend.

My ex and I broke up because we just drifted apart, and I am pretty sure she started seeing another guy on the side of me (I haven't spoke with my ex in ~3 yrs).

 

[brian123]

might aswell go for it, you got nothing to lose. ask her to go to coffee or something to 'catch up'

She is really in to music and my buddy's band is playing in two weeks. I think Ill see if she will come out to that (no pressure approach)