the pokemaster
Don Juan
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do any of u no any good topics that lead up to talking about gettin with eachother.
Elti Boi
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Elti Boi
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"getting with eachother" conversations
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Talk about an interest that you have, see if she feels the same way. If she does talk about that sh!t for a little then hang out with each other and take it from there.
the pokemaster
Don Juan
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i no ive done that but its takin a bit of time to get round 2 the intimate stuff i want to get wiv this girl i dont want to end up as a friend. this needs to be doe quick as shes leaving soon.
i no shes interested in me!
i no shes interested in me!
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Since you know shes interested look for the signs she sends you. Even if you dont get one make a move due to the fact shes leaving soon. Use that to your advantage and tell her you wanted to give her a going away gift.Originally posted by Elti Boi
i no ive done that but its takin a bit of time to get round 2 the intimate stuff i want to get wiv this girl i dont want to end up as a friend. this needs to be doe quick as shes leaving soon.
i no shes interested in me!
Dude, you want to get with her yeah? Not to talk about getting with her.talking about gettin with eachother
Actions is the zone are so much better than words.
If she has a good vibe and you can see that she getting interested then you know you can advance Slowly.
Use and read actions. Thumb wrestling, gently and innocently running your hands through her hair and other small and other little kino taps work so much better than talking.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.