"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the pokemaster

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do any of u no any good topics that lead up to talking about gettin with eachother.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Talk about an interest that you have, see if she feels the same way. If she does talk about that sh!t for a little then hang out with each other and take it from there.
 

the pokemaster

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i no ive done that but its takin a bit of time to get round 2 the intimate stuff i want to get wiv this girl i dont want to end up as a friend. this needs to be doe quick as shes leaving soon.
i no shes interested in me!
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Elti Boi
i no ive done that but its takin a bit of time to get round 2 the intimate stuff i want to get wiv this girl i dont want to end up as a friend. this needs to be doe quick as shes leaving soon.
i no shes interested in me!
Since you know shes interested look for the signs she sends you. Even if you dont get one make a move due to the fact shes leaving soon. Use that to your advantage and tell her you wanted to give her a going away gift.
 

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talking about gettin with eachother
Dude, you want to get with her yeah? Not to talk about getting with her.
Actions is the zone are so much better than words.
If she has a good vibe and you can see that she getting interested then you know you can advance Slowly.
Use and read actions. Thumb wrestling, gently and innocently running your hands through her hair and other small and other little kino taps work so much better than talking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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08aisaac

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Definitely use kino and get her somewhere private. Just get it to where you start kissing and take it from there. Don't hesitate and know that she wants you to do what ever you want to.
 
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