"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My natural clock seems to be Hugh Hefner hours - go to sleep as the sun is coming up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Waking up at 10am makes the strongest and more energic, 8 hours from 3am to 11am leave me full of energy while 8 hours from 11pm to 7am leave me lazy as fvck.

I hate the alarm clock, I would rather run 10 floors of stairs rather than waking up before Im ready.
 

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They sold it to me as "flexible".
Well, "flexible" is most often not in favor of the employee. I'm not exactly flexible though. After exactly 5 weeks the schedule just repeats. I know how I work tomorrow, next week, month, year or decade. So it's very predictable. There's really only 1 rough transition during those 5 weeks, the rest doesn't require sudden changes in sleep pattern.

What I meant about not keeping a regular schedule is that I can't do something at a specific time on a specific weekday every single week, because at least once every 5th week I'll work at that time.

Had it been unpredictable or as they so nicely try to sell it "flexible", then I would have quit a long time ago.
 
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They sold it to me as "flexible".

I was so exhausted that one time coming home, I got money out of a cashpoint and actually left the money in the cashpoint.

And i've done stuff like 12 hours on building sites no problem.

For me, early or late but not both.
We occasionally switch back and forth in my line of work. As you said, that's about the worst sh1t ever, I reckon.

You have to get used to people's angry sides. And you've never truly seen someone's angry side until they're completely exhausted.
 
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