"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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getting too comfortable

wetheliving

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Lately I have become very confident, which is a good thing, but the thing now is that I don't seem care about anything.

It's like I've gotten my priorities straight and I've figured out what's important and what's not, only now I seem to be ignoring the little things, the things that shouldn't be someone's top priority, but nevertheless shouldn't be altogether neglected either.

For example:

I feel so confident at work, that I often show up unshaved or without having really styled my hair or without wearing cologne, of course I do take care of my hygiene, but I don't bother to try and show off or make the best of my presentation.

The funny thing is that I'm walking around like I own my place even though sometimes look like I just got out of bed, what's even more funny is that the chicks love it. I don't wether it is because they think I'm just hot (which I could imagine) or because it's that I don't give fuk attitude that I seem to have that gets them attracted.

I feel good about being like this, but I do sometimes feel like I should put in a bit more effort into the little things, I just seem to be basically focused on my big goals and priorities that stuff like shaving seems irrelevant.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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That's a good attitude to have, but you should still take care of yourself and shave regularly and stuff.
 

ego

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That post made me think of the narrator in Fight Club.


:p :p :p :p :p :p
 
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