"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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getting too comfortable

wetheliving

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Lately I have become very confident, which is a good thing, but the thing now is that I don't seem care about anything.

It's like I've gotten my priorities straight and I've figured out what's important and what's not, only now I seem to be ignoring the little things, the things that shouldn't be someone's top priority, but nevertheless shouldn't be altogether neglected either.

For example:

I feel so confident at work, that I often show up unshaved or without having really styled my hair or without wearing cologne, of course I do take care of my hygiene, but I don't bother to try and show off or make the best of my presentation.

The funny thing is that I'm walking around like I own my place even though sometimes look like I just got out of bed, what's even more funny is that the chicks love it. I don't wether it is because they think I'm just hot (which I could imagine) or because it's that I don't give fuk attitude that I seem to have that gets them attracted.

I feel good about being like this, but I do sometimes feel like I should put in a bit more effort into the little things, I just seem to be basically focused on my big goals and priorities that stuff like shaving seems irrelevant.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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That's a good attitude to have, but you should still take care of yourself and shave regularly and stuff.
 

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That post made me think of the narrator in Fight Club.


:p :p :p :p :p :p
 
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