Getting too close

[wakeboarder]

Well, I like this girl who has a boyfriend. She knows me and talks to me. The problem is that I'm afraid that if I start talking more to her she will put me in the friendzone. I don't want that because once she breaks up with her boyfriend I will ask her out (Who knows when that will happen, but it's not like I'm waiting on them). So should I stay away from her socially, you know, just stay away from friend status, or should I talk to her more and get to know her better? Any input would be helpful.

 

[AJ_45]

Well I had this situation, and I really messed it up. Well a little backround info. She had a boyfriend, I didn't know him, I saw in school a lot, got a lot of hugs, kisses on the cheek, etc.

So basically, I fell into the friend zone. What you have to do to avoid that is just keep dropping little hints to her, and make sure that she knows you are there. You are probably considered a friend even right now because she does have a boyfriend. Once (if) they break up anytime soon, you will be there and that is when you can really turn your game on. So just be flirty without over doing it and paying respect to her boyfriend. Keep her wanting to se more and more of you, and finally when she leaves her boyfriend you will be golden.

Another thing I could never figure out though it how long after the boyfriend is gone.. Well good luck.

 

[oakraiderz2]

How about instead of waiting an uncertain amount of time, why dont you find some other girls to talk to and live your own damn life.

 

[wakeboarder]

I have other girls to talk to. I just wanted advice on this situation. Thanks

 

[Kev07]

make sure she doesn't use you as an emotional crutch