"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BongDuy

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So typically girls ask about me, or want to know something from me, but i never give them a direct answer. instead, i give them a vague answer, followed by a

" i feel like im being used here. i dont know anything about you."

and then they ask "well what do you want to know about me?"

What are some funny + ****y things to ask? usually i ask random stuff like " whats your shoe size?" and then i just get offtopic and hopefully the convo still flows.


thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fertileTurtle

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Are you wearing panties?
 
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Allurre

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If you want to know about the woman, ASK deeper questions.

Shoe size? That's weak -- you only need to know that if you're going to buy her new footwear, which is only advisable as a gift when you're in relationship mode.

Ask questions like...

What's one thing you've always wanted out of life? and that you're still working on at this moment?

or...

Every woman usually has a misconception about them, what do you think most people around you mistaken you for?


Then, follow up with "Why?"

Go hard by going deep. It won't spook her out, but shows that you're genuinely interested in who she is as a person. On top of that, you separate yourself from other boring dudes with lames questions.
 
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If I am being serious, I'll ask deep questions.

If I got enough rapport/comfort, then I will ask questions about sex (light at first, then I will go into deeper questions like positions and everything).

Usually, I don't go for c/f in the question modes. I go into c/f or negs in the conversation following the question.

- comic_relief
 
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