"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BongDuy

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So typically girls ask about me, or want to know something from me, but i never give them a direct answer. instead, i give them a vague answer, followed by a

" i feel like im being used here. i dont know anything about you."

and then they ask "well what do you want to know about me?"

What are some funny + ****y things to ask? usually i ask random stuff like " whats your shoe size?" and then i just get offtopic and hopefully the convo still flows.


thoughts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fertileTurtle

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Are you wearing panties?
 

Allurre

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If you want to know about the woman, ASK deeper questions.

Shoe size? That's weak -- you only need to know that if you're going to buy her new footwear, which is only advisable as a gift when you're in relationship mode.

Ask questions like...

What's one thing you've always wanted out of life? and that you're still working on at this moment?

or...

Every woman usually has a misconception about them, what do you think most people around you mistaken you for?


Then, follow up with "Why?"

Go hard by going deep. It won't spook her out, but shows that you're genuinely interested in who she is as a person. On top of that, you separate yourself from other boring dudes with lames questions.
 

comic_relief

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If I am being serious, I'll ask deep questions.

If I got enough rapport/comfort, then I will ask questions about sex (light at first, then I will go into deeper questions like positions and everything).

Usually, I don't go for c/f in the question modes. I go into c/f or negs in the conversation following the question.

- comic_relief
 
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