"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting to know her more

BongDuy

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So typically girls ask about me, or want to know something from me, but i never give them a direct answer. instead, i give them a vague answer, followed by a

" i feel like im being used here. i dont know anything about you."

and then they ask "well what do you want to know about me?"

What are some funny + ****y things to ask? usually i ask random stuff like " whats your shoe size?" and then i just get offtopic and hopefully the convo still flows.


thoughts?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

fertileTurtle

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Are you wearing panties?
 

Allurre

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If you want to know about the woman, ASK deeper questions.

Shoe size? That's weak -- you only need to know that if you're going to buy her new footwear, which is only advisable as a gift when you're in relationship mode.

Ask questions like...

What's one thing you've always wanted out of life? and that you're still working on at this moment?

or...

Every woman usually has a misconception about them, what do you think most people around you mistaken you for?


Then, follow up with "Why?"

Go hard by going deep. It won't spook her out, but shows that you're genuinely interested in who she is as a person. On top of that, you separate yourself from other boring dudes with lames questions.
 

comic_relief

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If I am being serious, I'll ask deep questions.

If I got enough rapport/comfort, then I will ask questions about sex (light at first, then I will go into deeper questions like positions and everything).

Usually, I don't go for c/f in the question modes. I go into c/f or negs in the conversation following the question.

- comic_relief
 
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