Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting tired of dealing with women

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So I'm still not understanding what the issue is? Are you guys complaining because you can't get laid? Or because you don't like playing the game? Or what? I don't get it
Just read the title of the thread..

For more detail read our posted comments.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just read the title of the thread..

For more detail read our posted comments.
Why are you guys tired of dealing with women?

Are they too much for you grown ass men? Lol

On a serious note, I haven't read not 1 legit reason for anyone of you guys to be complaining about anything, not 1.

Trust me, I would help if it was a legit issue, man to another man, you guys just sound like you can't handle women, if I'm wrong tell me
 

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No they’re just annoying, kind of like your posts.
No, what's annoying is a bunch of grown ass men who complain because women and the game are just waay too much for them to handle, man up or just go gay, those are your options.
 

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Define "handling women".
Like I said earlier, I think page 3, certain guys don't have the type of issues you guys are complaining about, we all deal with certain sh!t from women but women are only difficult with certain men, not all.

And when I say handling women I mean your not going to see me complaining about the game or how "difficult" they are, why? Because I can handle it and I know to take the good with the bad.

There's pros and cons to everything, including women. Real men don't play victim, they find a solution that best fits them.

Dealing with women is different for certain guys because women don't act difficult with every guy, only the average or weak ones or "betas" as SS calls it.
 

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What’s even more annoying is men who complain about men who complain.

Because not only are you complaining, but you’re being a hypocrite too.

Which coincidentally is another trait you share with some of the crazy bishes we’re complaining about.
I can't relate, I don't have the issues you guys deal with, sorry.....i will help as best as I can but you gotta be willing to learn and stop boo hooing like little school girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Same few guys hijack every thread
Can't speak for the other guys you talking about but last time I checked every time I give my input on a thread most love it and learn from, I could care less about the 1 or 2 who don't. Shrugs.
 

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Well maybe we aren't male 10s, nor should we have to be btw. If it isn't your experience then you probably don't have much advice to give other than bragging. Maybe if you have specific suggestions based on experience overcoming things you can help.
When I first got on this site I did admit I was good looking but I'm not a 10 lol and I'm sure there's guys better looking than I am on here.

Your not the issue, and I very rarely see you complain and you usually have good input so I'm sure you will find a solution to the issue at hand.
 

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Awww this is so sweet.

Our serial BPD posters r all out of the woodworks and up in a show of arms.

Reminds me of the peek a boo I made on an incel/MGTOW forum when there were shootings in the US.

Let all those hate flow out boys...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you finished complaining about complaining? Now go and finish your high school homework big stud.
Ok and i just remembered your that weird guy that thinks every women who rejects him has a mental illness lol.....

Just because your not good with women doesn't give you the right to say there mentally ill, that's just wrong bro.....
Lmaooo
 

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If that's your standard for quality of life, then you are very easily amused.

As I say, a simpleton fvckboy. No worries.

But eventually, your tastes may become more refined. You may actually enter a few different LTR's which show possibilities you hadn't previously thought of - which may also contrast your surroundings. You may start to want more out of life, and your own development as a human being.

Or not. Whatever.
Getting laid or women in general are about as important to me as my fish, I feed them and I like them but if they die I don't lose sleep and don't think twice about it.

Also, for some guys who are complaining about women you all should be the last ones who need to be advising someone on how women and getting laid are not "the standard" for life. Like really?
 

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Yeah right that’s why you created a profile on a website that helps you pick up chicks ;)
Nope not why, I already explained why when I first got here, not doing it again. If you know you know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don’t bother even responding to him, he’s a high school kid who can’t read or spell and who just likes to come here to try to impress us with his bullsh*t about how much he gets laid.

He’s a 14 year old just trolling us.
Why are you piggybacking behind him, he doesn't need your help, stop d!ckr!ding.
 

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The best way to do this is by dismissing them when things are good (and dropping them if they try to act up) Because once you chase, the frame collapses and the relation is dead.

They must chase to make it work. This is key. When they stop chasing, create space.
It sounds like you are saying to create space when things are good and create space when they stop chasing too. Could you clarify? Maybe I misunderstanding your comment of "dismissing" them as being the same thing as creating space.
 

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To add to the discussion @oldmanofthesea, creating space used to increase mystery, separation anxiety, and desire. To close the gap, the plate would reach out and restore contact. That worked for me in the past, lately in the last few years though, I've seen these plates just use my absent attention to hit up her orbiters either in coms, hooking up, etc. or respond faster to them if the orbiters are hitting her up on a semi-regular basis to feel out her IL.
 

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Name any contribution you feel that you've made to this community since being here that can't be superceded by a simple use of the search function - anyway that you've advanced the general frame, whatsoever.

You are a non-entity. And you are on ignore.
My feelings are hurt.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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