"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I'm still not understanding what the issue is? Are you guys complaining because you can't get laid? Or because you don't like playing the game? Or what? I don't get it
Just read the title of the thread..

For more detail read our posted comments.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just read the title of the thread..

For more detail read our posted comments.
Why are you guys tired of dealing with women?

Are they too much for you grown ass men? Lol

On a serious note, I haven't read not 1 legit reason for anyone of you guys to be complaining about anything, not 1.

Trust me, I would help if it was a legit issue, man to another man, you guys just sound like you can't handle women, if I'm wrong tell me
 

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No they’re just annoying, kind of like your posts.
No, what's annoying is a bunch of grown ass men who complain because women and the game are just waay too much for them to handle, man up or just go gay, those are your options.
 

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Define "handling women".
Like I said earlier, I think page 3, certain guys don't have the type of issues you guys are complaining about, we all deal with certain sh!t from women but women are only difficult with certain men, not all.

And when I say handling women I mean your not going to see me complaining about the game or how "difficult" they are, why? Because I can handle it and I know to take the good with the bad.

There's pros and cons to everything, including women. Real men don't play victim, they find a solution that best fits them.

Dealing with women is different for certain guys because women don't act difficult with every guy, only the average or weak ones or "betas" as SS calls it.
 

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What’s even more annoying is men who complain about men who complain.

Because not only are you complaining, but you’re being a hypocrite too.

Which coincidentally is another trait you share with some of the crazy bishes we’re complaining about.
I can't relate, I don't have the issues you guys deal with, sorry.....i will help as best as I can but you gotta be willing to learn and stop boo hooing like little school girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Same few guys hijack every thread
Can't speak for the other guys you talking about but last time I checked every time I give my input on a thread most love it and learn from, I could care less about the 1 or 2 who don't. Shrugs.
 

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Well maybe we aren't male 10s, nor should we have to be btw. If it isn't your experience then you probably don't have much advice to give other than bragging. Maybe if you have specific suggestions based on experience overcoming things you can help.
When I first got on this site I did admit I was good looking but I'm not a 10 lol and I'm sure there's guys better looking than I am on here.

Your not the issue, and I very rarely see you complain and you usually have good input so I'm sure you will find a solution to the issue at hand.
 

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Awww this is so sweet.

Our serial BPD posters r all out of the woodworks and up in a show of arms.

Reminds me of the peek a boo I made on an incel/MGTOW forum when there were shootings in the US.

Let all those hate flow out boys...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you finished complaining about complaining? Now go and finish your high school homework big stud.
Ok and i just remembered your that weird guy that thinks every women who rejects him has a mental illness lol.....

Just because your not good with women doesn't give you the right to say there mentally ill, that's just wrong bro.....
Lmaooo
 

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If that's your standard for quality of life, then you are very easily amused.

As I say, a simpleton fvckboy. No worries.

But eventually, your tastes may become more refined. You may actually enter a few different LTR's which show possibilities you hadn't previously thought of - which may also contrast your surroundings. You may start to want more out of life, and your own development as a human being.

Or not. Whatever.
Getting laid or women in general are about as important to me as my fish, I feed them and I like them but if they die I don't lose sleep and don't think twice about it.

Also, for some guys who are complaining about women you all should be the last ones who need to be advising someone on how women and getting laid are not "the standard" for life. Like really?
 

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Yeah right that’s why you created a profile on a website that helps you pick up chicks ;)
Nope not why, I already explained why when I first got here, not doing it again. If you know you know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don’t bother even responding to him, he’s a high school kid who can’t read or spell and who just likes to come here to try to impress us with his bullsh*t about how much he gets laid.

He’s a 14 year old just trolling us.
Why are you piggybacking behind him, he doesn't need your help, stop d!ckr!ding.
 

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The best way to do this is by dismissing them when things are good (and dropping them if they try to act up) Because once you chase, the frame collapses and the relation is dead.

They must chase to make it work. This is key. When they stop chasing, create space.
It sounds like you are saying to create space when things are good and create space when they stop chasing too. Could you clarify? Maybe I misunderstanding your comment of "dismissing" them as being the same thing as creating space.
 

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To add to the discussion @oldmanofthesea, creating space used to increase mystery, separation anxiety, and desire. To close the gap, the plate would reach out and restore contact. That worked for me in the past, lately in the last few years though, I've seen these plates just use my absent attention to hit up her orbiters either in coms, hooking up, etc. or respond faster to them if the orbiters are hitting her up on a semi-regular basis to feel out her IL.
 

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Name any contribution you feel that you've made to this community since being here that can't be superceded by a simple use of the search function - anyway that you've advanced the general frame, whatsoever.

You are a non-entity. And you are on ignore.
My feelings are hurt.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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