"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting the kiss

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Grey Fox

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Its kinda predictable. Just go and have a good time, don't worry about kissing that will just trip you up. A kiss should just happen naturally, if you push it like a political agenda you will take all the fun out of it. Just enjoy yourself, hey it sounds good to me that she wants to do something with you that she normally doesn't do or have interest in, she probably likes hanging with you so feel free to talk during the game. You don't want her to think you have gone cold all of a sudden.(I assume you don't talk to much.)

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Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids.

If you can't go up and kiss her on the lips, kiss other places if you want to see if it's "safe" to kiss her on the lips.
 
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