"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting the kiss

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Grey Fox

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Its kinda predictable. Just go and have a good time, don't worry about kissing that will just trip you up. A kiss should just happen naturally, if you push it like a political agenda you will take all the fun out of it. Just enjoy yourself, hey it sounds good to me that she wants to do something with you that she normally doesn't do or have interest in, she probably likes hanging with you so feel free to talk during the game. You don't want her to think you have gone cold all of a sudden.(I assume you don't talk to much.)

-Grey Fox
 

DeathDealer

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Silly rabbit, tricks are for kids.

If you can't go up and kiss her on the lips, kiss other places if you want to see if it's "safe" to kiss her on the lips.
 
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