“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting the girls friend comfortable

Laser

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Ok i ended up bumping into a girl who i used to go to school with. I was cool with her and im sure she was feeling me me back then. So i saw her on my lunch break at some food place. We chatted for a while, catched up etc. Shes working in the same mall as me.

Now it seems this is the spot she hangs out during her lunch breaks. The thing is she hangs with this co worker of hers.

She seems like an obstacle for some reason. I mean if it was only her, then it would be cool as hell, as it will be only us two.

So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good_ol_boy

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Originally posted by Laser
...So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
How about BOTH, they are not mutually exclusive!!
 

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So how shall i play it with this friend of hers?
 

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You interested in her too?
Get her number to introduce a little competition. Not interested, talk to like a friend.
 
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