"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Getting the girls friend comfortable

L

Laser

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 31, 2005
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Ok i ended up bumping into a girl who i used to go to school with. I was cool with her and im sure she was feeling me me back then. So i saw her on my lunch break at some food place. We chatted for a while, catched up etc. Shes working in the same mall as me.

Now it seems this is the spot she hangs out during her lunch breaks. The thing is she hangs with this co worker of hers.

She seems like an obstacle for some reason. I mean if it was only her, then it would be cool as hell, as it will be only us two.

So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

G

Good_ol_boy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2002
Messages
310
Reaction score
2
Location
San Diego East County Mountains
Originally posted by Laser
...So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
Click to expand...
How about BOTH, they are not mutually exclusive!!
 
L

Laser

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 31, 2005
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
So how shall i play it with this friend of hers?
 
G

Good_ol_boy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 24, 2002
Messages
310
Reaction score
2
Location
San Diego East County Mountains
You interested in her too?
Get her number to introduce a little competition. Not interested, talk to like a friend.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top