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Getting the girls friend comfortable

Laser

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Ok i ended up bumping into a girl who i used to go to school with. I was cool with her and im sure she was feeling me me back then. So i saw her on my lunch break at some food place. We chatted for a while, catched up etc. Shes working in the same mall as me.

Now it seems this is the spot she hangs out during her lunch breaks. The thing is she hangs with this co worker of hers.

She seems like an obstacle for some reason. I mean if it was only her, then it would be cool as hell, as it will be only us two.

So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
 

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Originally posted by Laser
...So what do i do? Shall i start putting some effort with this girl friend of hers and chat to her too as she will feel a bit out of place if i dont chat to her.

OR shall i just take her number and try to arrange a 1 on 1 without the distraction of her friend.
How about BOTH, they are not mutually exclusive!!
 

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So how shall i play it with this friend of hers?
 

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You interested in her too?
Get her number to introduce a little competition. Not interested, talk to like a friend.
 
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