"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting the girl I wanted!

ianlove

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I do not consider myself to look anything special, in fact I KNOW I don't look anything special but this is beyond me. Why let all the Brad Pitts in this world steal MY fun away.
I just would not even rate myself on the looks ladder, its pointless as beauty will always be in the eye of the beholder (a cliche I know but theres a reason its a cliche) A "HB9" will be a "HB5" to somebody else. So I just work what I gots, I keep clean, no hygene* problems *(check the spelling on that coz i can't be bothered)
So it would come a great surprise to me to find that my best friends sister had a n exceptional crush on me no. I make no joke when I say in my eyes she could be a model she is that hawt.

Just as an addition, I am not the guy who actively searches to steal my best friends gfs or sisters, I am loyal to my friends to the last second.

The added ingredients to enhancing this crush are these. Firstly I hang out with my friend, I go to his about twice a month*1
From the first time I met his sister I made a good impression C+F (or whatever it is called on this forum)*2
I am a confident sonofab1tch. I have the body language down to a tee and I have no problems holding eye contact with men, women whether they're in my face or not, no matter how hot they are*3
The added thing is a little bit of jealousy :) This can work wonders, BAM, you have that rarity factor*4

*1 Rarity factor One: I was rarely in social contact with her. I didn't go out of my way to stay away nor did i go out of my way to see her. One mistake guys make is thinking lots and lots of interaction will get the girl, NOT true. Some also think that this will lead to her asking you out, also NOT true. You have to do the asking or you end up in this LJBF zone that is som abhored round here.
*2 First time I met her was around christmas last year. I was visiting her brother to play a healthy dose of HALO 2, hell I aint gunna make no bones about it, as much as I like socialising I like my computer games too. I was lay on my friends bed when she waltzed in, I was busy kicking some nasty alien ass savin' the world IMPORTANT!! lol But I made proper introductions and this was before I discovered this site.
*3 Blah Blah Blah, could I stroke my own ego more!!? Yeah, hot looking women don't disable me anymore like they used to, nor do men bigger than me. I look at "HB10" and treat her like she is a "HB1" (not to say I am disrespectful, I am always respectful of anyonw who meets me halfway, i just like to knock em of their pedestal)
*4 I have another good looking lady friend, we aint going out but I had no problems making it subtely seem like I WAS going out with her where my friends sister was concerned. Ethical dillema! So what, women do the same exact thing dudes, they use jealousy. Its a dirty game but hey, they want equality so I am going to use jealousy as much as they do.

I won't lie, from the day I first met her I wanted her but never thought I could get a lady that gorgeous until I applied what I have learnt.
Don't know if any of this has helped, in fact if it aint i am not concerned, just imparting a story.

Hope you enjoyed brothas DJ
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Macgyver

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I see you learn how to make a webboard post from "The Shezzler." What exactly are you trying to say?
 
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