"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Getting the girl I wanted!

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I do not consider myself to look anything special, in fact I KNOW I don't look anything special but this is beyond me. Why let all the Brad Pitts in this world steal MY fun away.
I just would not even rate myself on the looks ladder, its pointless as beauty will always be in the eye of the beholder (a cliche I know but theres a reason its a cliche) A "HB9" will be a "HB5" to somebody else. So I just work what I gots, I keep clean, no hygene* problems *(check the spelling on that coz i can't be bothered)
So it would come a great surprise to me to find that my best friends sister had a n exceptional crush on me no. I make no joke when I say in my eyes she could be a model she is that hawt.

Just as an addition, I am not the guy who actively searches to steal my best friends gfs or sisters, I am loyal to my friends to the last second.

The added ingredients to enhancing this crush are these. Firstly I hang out with my friend, I go to his about twice a month*1
From the first time I met his sister I made a good impression C+F (or whatever it is called on this forum)*2
I am a confident sonofab1tch. I have the body language down to a tee and I have no problems holding eye contact with men, women whether they're in my face or not, no matter how hot they are*3
The added thing is a little bit of jealousy :) This can work wonders, BAM, you have that rarity factor*4

*1 Rarity factor One: I was rarely in social contact with her. I didn't go out of my way to stay away nor did i go out of my way to see her. One mistake guys make is thinking lots and lots of interaction will get the girl, NOT true. Some also think that this will lead to her asking you out, also NOT true. You have to do the asking or you end up in this LJBF zone that is som abhored round here.
*2 First time I met her was around christmas last year. I was visiting her brother to play a healthy dose of HALO 2, hell I aint gunna make no bones about it, as much as I like socialising I like my computer games too. I was lay on my friends bed when she waltzed in, I was busy kicking some nasty alien ass savin' the world IMPORTANT!! lol But I made proper introductions and this was before I discovered this site.
*3 Blah Blah Blah, could I stroke my own ego more!!? Yeah, hot looking women don't disable me anymore like they used to, nor do men bigger than me. I look at "HB10" and treat her like she is a "HB1" (not to say I am disrespectful, I am always respectful of anyonw who meets me halfway, i just like to knock em of their pedestal)
*4 I have another good looking lady friend, we aint going out but I had no problems making it subtely seem like I WAS going out with her where my friends sister was concerned. Ethical dillema! So what, women do the same exact thing dudes, they use jealousy. Its a dirty game but hey, they want equality so I am going to use jealousy as much as they do.

I won't lie, from the day I first met her I wanted her but never thought I could get a lady that gorgeous until I applied what I have learnt.
Don't know if any of this has helped, in fact if it aint i am not concerned, just imparting a story.

Hope you enjoyed brothas DJ
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I see you learn how to make a webboard post from "The Shezzler." What exactly are you trying to say?
 
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