Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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ok so heres the deal... last year i went out with this girl for a while, and it was pretty cool. she says that im the best thing that has happened to her. but after a little while i broke up with her, and then went out with her and broke up with her. right now we're pretty cool friends and she has a bf right now. thing is, this bf is just a bf...and she and i both know that if we were to go out then she would definantley love to. but i need a plan or strategy to get her back. I need a way to detach her current bf from her in a very smart strategic way that she wont even know whats going on. i know i can i just need a method or some sort of way... i mean she said that herself... her current bf is just a bf..and the way i treated her and made her feel was the best thing shes ever felt. i know i can get her back if i do something smart.. i just need a plan or something.. i really want her back this time you know the feeling? anyways can any of you all fellow djs back me up on this one? thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Ambience420.
ok so heres the deal... last year i went out with this girl for a while, and it was pretty cool. she says that im the best thing that has happened to her. but after a little while i broke up with her, and then went out with her and broke up with her. right now we're pretty cool friends and she has a bf right now. thing is, this bf is just a bf...and she and i both know that if we were to go out then she would definantley love to. but i need a plan or strategy to get her back. I need a way to detach her current bf from her in a very smart strategic way that she wont even know whats going on. i know i can i just need a method or some sort of way... i mean she said that herself... her current bf is just a bf..and the way i treated her and made her feel was the best thing shes ever felt. i know i can get her back if i do something smart.. i just need a plan or something.. i really want her back this time you know the feeling? anyways can any of you all fellow djs back me up on this one? thanks.
and this kids, is why having guy friends is a must, they will immediately get yo out of this thinking.

thats why i worry when u make post like this, it worries me that u got no friends, cause theyd hook u up with a nice hott virgin if they say u with this disease.

ur post sounds like a joke, get over it.
 
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give me one good reason why he shouldn't get back together with his ex.

because it won't work out? it's highschool, you should assume no relationship will work out.

I'll type something up later.
 

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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
give me one good reason why he shouldn't get back together with his ex.
1. Why not move on to bigger and better things?
2. This girl obviously loves drama, and drama sometimes sucks.
3. The Bf's friends and him included could kick his ass.
4. High school is a time to go thru as many chicks as possible. Because it isn't serious you should get as much experience as possible.
5. Second, third, forth etc times are just set ups for failure.
6. Why go back to something you've already done? How many times can you ride the rollercoaster and still call it fun?

There's 6!
 
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