"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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ok so heres the deal... last year i went out with this girl for a while, and it was pretty cool. she says that im the best thing that has happened to her. but after a little while i broke up with her, and then went out with her and broke up with her. right now we're pretty cool friends and she has a bf right now. thing is, this bf is just a bf...and she and i both know that if we were to go out then she would definantley love to. but i need a plan or strategy to get her back. I need a way to detach her current bf from her in a very smart strategic way that she wont even know whats going on. i know i can i just need a method or some sort of way... i mean she said that herself... her current bf is just a bf..and the way i treated her and made her feel was the best thing shes ever felt. i know i can get her back if i do something smart.. i just need a plan or something.. i really want her back this time you know the feeling? anyways can any of you all fellow djs back me up on this one? thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Ambience420.
ok so heres the deal... last year i went out with this girl for a while, and it was pretty cool. she says that im the best thing that has happened to her. but after a little while i broke up with her, and then went out with her and broke up with her. right now we're pretty cool friends and she has a bf right now. thing is, this bf is just a bf...and she and i both know that if we were to go out then she would definantley love to. but i need a plan or strategy to get her back. I need a way to detach her current bf from her in a very smart strategic way that she wont even know whats going on. i know i can i just need a method or some sort of way... i mean she said that herself... her current bf is just a bf..and the way i treated her and made her feel was the best thing shes ever felt. i know i can get her back if i do something smart.. i just need a plan or something.. i really want her back this time you know the feeling? anyways can any of you all fellow djs back me up on this one? thanks.
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and this kids, is why having guy friends is a must, they will immediately get yo out of this thinking.

thats why i worry when u make post like this, it worries me that u got no friends, cause theyd hook u up with a nice hott virgin if they say u with this disease.

ur post sounds like a joke, get over it.
 
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give me one good reason why he shouldn't get back together with his ex.

because it won't work out? it's highschool, you should assume no relationship will work out.

I'll type something up later.
 
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Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
give me one good reason why he shouldn't get back together with his ex.
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1. Why not move on to bigger and better things?
2. This girl obviously loves drama, and drama sometimes sucks.
3. The Bf's friends and him included could kick his ass.
4. High school is a time to go thru as many chicks as possible. Because it isn't serious you should get as much experience as possible.
5. Second, third, forth etc times are just set ups for failure.
6. Why go back to something you've already done? How many times can you ride the rollercoaster and still call it fun?

There's 6!
 
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