"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Getting the EX back!

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Talked to some of my friends about my unique situation (refer to Holy Grail Relationship). They mentioned that I might stand a small chance of getting her back. I wasn't to sad about our breakup, but knowing that something could happen to change her mind is a very interesting one. I will have a date with her on Friday, I know that FULL BF benefits are still involved for that post breakup date. She still calls me back, we still talk to each other as if we are together. Her girlfriend who hooked us up in the first place told me she has already like 3 guys lined up at her school (we attend seperate schools), when I casually brought up that fact, she was like NO, there is nobody else, that's why I want you to hook me up. We promised each other that we would help each other out. I would like to maybe get her back, but don't really know how. Any tips would be appreciated.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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She's willing to give you BF benefits WITHOUT a relationship, yet you want a relationship? What's the problem here?
 
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Its hard to explain, but i want her as friend with benefits but date somebody else. Its complex and I consider it a challenge.
 
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then why was was you post named "getting the ex back" i too fail to see a problem here.
 
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