Getting **** tested hard, please help

[Tha_carter_92]

I caught this girl trying to **** test me hard a few days ago and I dont know what to do


I have a bunch of problems with my roommate that I was telling her about a few days ago. He's basically just a ***** beta nerd, doesn't like to go out, dating a girl thats probably a slut, claims that if youre gf isn't actively trying to catch you cheating shes cheating etc. I'm stuck on the lease til september than getting my own place, im 23 and I feel like this will be the last time I have a roommate, it ****s with my game way too hard each time.


I don't really like this girl too much but she wants it and shes constantly trying to **** test me and I've caught it a bunch of times. She lives by herself w/ her child and is the same age as me, we went to hs together but never talked until recently. Shes decent looking but has too much drama and wants a legit relationship, seems like she just gets ****ed and used by guys all the time though.


So I was telling her all this **** about my roommate, a few days ago, within the past week. Everything he does that bothers me and how wack his ideologies are. Than I was going to use a hammer and went in his toolbox and I found some really expensive sunglasses I've been missing for months sitting in there, and theyre kinda ****ed up now. She keeps asking me what i'm gonna say to my roommate, when i'm going to say something, if i'm going to trash all of his **** or steal anything from him, etc. I told her that our schedules don't line up and we haven't seen eachother in a day and that i'm not sure the route i'm going to take.


I'm going to say something to my roommate and probably ***** at him but thats too easy. What do I tell this girl that I said or did to him? I feel like if I just say "yea I bitched at him also I trashed his stuff", that wouldn't be a good answer because shes expecting that. Also, she wants to come over and smoke weed in his room, which i'm not letting her do. I'd love to but this kid is just too beta, something between the clothes he spends his entire fast food paychecks on, the fact hes never smoked or drank before, and the amount of videogames this kid plays makes me never want to bring girls over here, i gotta go to her house, its just too beta over here. This place would be really nice if it was just me but it isn't so we have pokemon and n64 out as much as I clean, i'm moving out of this place ASAP and never looking back

 

[MrWood]

you dont really like the girl, but your panties are all in a bunch trying to figure out what to do,
to please her,
about your problem.

Why do you need to tell her anything?

 

[cola]

Ditch the single mom.
Pothead, Kid, Vindictive, Suggesting you do things that could potentially land you in jail (destroy his property).. she's the most toxic person in your life right now, not your room mate.

 

[blind_one]

Ditch the single mom.
Pothead, Kid, Vindictive, Suggesting you do things that could potentially land you in jail (destroy his property).. she's the most toxic person in your life right now, not your room mate.

Wholeheartedly second this. She is trying to manipulate you into a toxic relationship, searching for a provider.

Your roommate might be whack but that just means you have to screen harder next time.

Drop that hoe or suffer the consequences.

#bonus tip --- there is no point in bitching, never ever. Especially to a girl/plate/xyz, it is never beneficial. Treat problems like challanges and act accordingly.

 

[9asus2]

1. It's none of her business in the first place
2. She's not **** testing you - she's sticking her nose in or crazy or ****ing w/ you (probably a mix of all 3)
3. 2. shouldn't matter - who cares, see 1.

or in short

"I've dealt with it, let's not bring it up again" then proceed to fvck or ditch her, she hardly sounds like a winner though

 

[WanderingMan]

Why are you complaining to her about your weak ass roommate. That just shows that YOU are weak and can't handle life's problems....which indicates YOU are the beta male.

You involved this chick into your petty bull ****, now you're wondering why she's curious about what you're going to do? Regardless, she sounds like low class. Ditch her, take care of your ****, move out, and start fresh.

 

[Slime93]

Sounds like you need a therapist.

 

[ZTIME]

I believe that you are the one who is sh*t testing yourself.

I.e. How low of a level does a girl have to be for you to realize their advice is no good?

Telling a pot smoking, single mother, who wants to create drama for you and your roommate anything about your personal life is liken to asking the guy at the car wash for stock tips.

Make better choices for yourself. Lonely mama drama is no fun.