"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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getting started- book/seminar recomendations

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I stumbled upon this website after reading the Game and looking into all this stuff after a breakup with a long-term girlfriend. I am in my early 30's and was wondering what books folks recomend on becoming a bit more suave as I resume dating. Also anyone done any of the seminars? What are folks thoughts on them..they are quite pricey
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I haven't done a bootcamp or seminar yet, but I plan to in the next year or so. The Real Social Dynamics programs are the most interesting to me.

As far as other materials David DeAngelo is the leader in this category and I have been really, really happy with everything I've bought from him. I currently own and recommend the following:

Double your Dating (his original ebook)

CD/DVD programs:

Advanced Series
****y Comedy
Sexual Communication
Approaching Women
Mastery Series
Meeting Women in Bars and Clubs
Monthly Interview Subscription

Of the above, Advanced Series and Mastery Series are going to give you the most material to work with and the most rapid advancement. It's life changing $hit and goes beyond "pickup lines" and gets you into a mode of constant self improvement.

Spend your money and time on the above first so you can really get a lot of value out of a live training seminar when you go.

gixx
 

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thanks

thanks for your 2 cents. I was leaning toward David Deangelo's ebooks, I will take your suggestions. I was checking out the pickup 101 seminar in san francisco and it looks pretty good...but its quite a big comitment financially and is a long flight, etc. anyway, I am hoping I can figure it out what I need with the books and some practice
 

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Books and seminars are cool, you have to read or listen over and over until you understand it.

Most probably, the best book I have read is the one authored by Kevin Bates and the other author is Marius Panzarella.

Can't give the book title.

But if you are going to attend Seminars or Purchase a book, I suggest you download the bootcamp instead and do it in every free time you have.

Real time experiance is better than reading any books or attending seminars. In real life experiance, you have mixed emotions and informations, pressure, fear, and regardless, its a matter of doing it even you are afraid to do it.
 

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i strongly recommend working on your voice tone and body language first. i know you're probably thinking it's not a big deal; afterall, i said the same thing to myself at first. if you dedicate yourself to becoming a don juan, you'll eventually realize how vital voice tone and body laguage is. you can say the most slick remark at the right time but it wouldn't work if you say it with the wrong tone and body language. on the flip side of that, you can say the most simple remark with the right tone and body language and spark some attraction. now, imagine saying a slick remark at the right time with the right tone and body language. killer
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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