I'll admit.. I'm no Don Juan or anything. I'm pretty bad at first dates. I've learned in my life experiences that the only chance I'll get a 2nd date is if I kiss a girl on the first. If I don't do anything with them, no matter how much the date I think went well, won't get a call back. I have a date on Wednesday and def. will be more aggresive. My question is What is the best method to further progress a date than just a first kiss to getting some? FYI: I'm not trying to sound needy but would like to have some memorable dates while I'm still young lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Getting some on First Date
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's just it, you are still young and are still learning the game. Unless you were just born a DJ with movie star looks, you will be learning what works and what doesn't. Expect to make mistakes along the way and a lot of one date wonders. Some of my most memorable times were from dates that I never ended up seeing the chick again.NYCJoey22 said: