I'll admit.. I'm no Don Juan or anything. I'm pretty bad at first dates. I've learned in my life experiences that the only chance I'll get a 2nd date is if I kiss a girl on the first. If I don't do anything with them, no matter how much the date I think went well, won't get a call back. I have a date on Wednesday and def. will be more aggresive. My question is What is the best method to further progress a date than just a first kiss to getting some? FYI: I'm not trying to sound needy but would like to have some memorable dates while I'm still young lol
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Getting some on First Date
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's just it, you are still young and are still learning the game. Unless you were just born a DJ with movie star looks, you will be learning what works and what doesn't. Expect to make mistakes along the way and a lot of one date wonders. Some of my most memorable times were from dates that I never ended up seeing the chick again.NYCJoey22 said: