I'll admit.. I'm no Don Juan or anything. I'm pretty bad at first dates. I've learned in my life experiences that the only chance I'll get a 2nd date is if I kiss a girl on the first. If I don't do anything with them, no matter how much the date I think went well, won't get a call back. I have a date on Wednesday and def. will be more aggresive. My question is What is the best method to further progress a date than just a first kiss to getting some? FYI: I'm not trying to sound needy but would like to have some memorable dates while I'm still young lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Getting some on First Date
- Thread starter NYCJoey22
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's just it, you are still young and are still learning the game. Unless you were just born a DJ with movie star looks, you will be learning what works and what doesn't. Expect to make mistakes along the way and a lot of one date wonders. Some of my most memorable times were from dates that I never ended up seeing the chick again.NYCJoey22 said: