"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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getting rid of a belly

Serg897

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hey guys,

I have two things I want to address on here

One is that recently Ive been growing more concious about a horrible beer belly Ive had for a while. I want to get rid of it. Other than that, I think I look like a pretty normal guy, maybe on the skinny side. Its just the belly. I dont have any abs at all.

I'd like a good ruetine and exercises anyone can recomend for me to get rid of it.

The other thing is.....I get sleepy and tired really easily in the early afternoon. I think I get plenty of sleep ( maybe around 7 or 8 hours every night ) but it still happens. Im not sure whats wrong there either.

Thanks for reading.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJUofS

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Your 16 with a beer belly? Wow.

Anyway, in order to get rid of your belly you first must diet right. Cardio, by itself, won't get rid of your gut. For a good guide as to how to eat to lose your belly (cut your body fat), read Deisel's guide.

As for getting tired, I believe that is caused by your eating habits.
I use to have the same problem. I would eat two big meals a day, but found myself getting tired. Now I eat about 4 smaller meals and take in the same amount of calories, but I have much more energy. Also, drink lots of water. Ever since I started drinking water, my energy has risen through the roof.
 

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DJU is right.

Abs are made in the kitchen.

Don't want that beer belly? STOP DRINKING BEER!

Want more energy? Drink some water, cut down on sugary foods for lunch. Cut a few calories out, and have a couple pieces of whole grain or whole wheat bread with some peanut butter on them. Have the peanut butter sandwhich at ~2 or 3 oclock.

That'll fix ya up till dinner.
 

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I dont drink beer or anything - the belly just petrudes out and looks like one. I have no idea whats causing it, problably my crappy diet like you guys say. I should have made that clear before.

thanks for the tips.
 

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One problem could be your posture.

Fixing it won't get you abbs. But if you have bad posture it can cause you to look like you have a beer belly when you don't.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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