"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Serg897

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hey guys,

I have two things I want to address on here

One is that recently Ive been growing more concious about a horrible beer belly Ive had for a while. I want to get rid of it. Other than that, I think I look like a pretty normal guy, maybe on the skinny side. Its just the belly. I dont have any abs at all.

I'd like a good ruetine and exercises anyone can recomend for me to get rid of it.

The other thing is.....I get sleepy and tired really easily in the early afternoon. I think I get plenty of sleep ( maybe around 7 or 8 hours every night ) but it still happens. Im not sure whats wrong there either.

Thanks for reading.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJUofS

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Your 16 with a beer belly? Wow.

Anyway, in order to get rid of your belly you first must diet right. Cardio, by itself, won't get rid of your gut. For a good guide as to how to eat to lose your belly (cut your body fat), read Deisel's guide.

As for getting tired, I believe that is caused by your eating habits.
I use to have the same problem. I would eat two big meals a day, but found myself getting tired. Now I eat about 4 smaller meals and take in the same amount of calories, but I have much more energy. Also, drink lots of water. Ever since I started drinking water, my energy has risen through the roof.
 

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DJU is right.

Abs are made in the kitchen.

Don't want that beer belly? STOP DRINKING BEER!

Want more energy? Drink some water, cut down on sugary foods for lunch. Cut a few calories out, and have a couple pieces of whole grain or whole wheat bread with some peanut butter on them. Have the peanut butter sandwhich at ~2 or 3 oclock.

That'll fix ya up till dinner.
 

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I dont drink beer or anything - the belly just petrudes out and looks like one. I have no idea whats causing it, problably my crappy diet like you guys say. I should have made that clear before.

thanks for the tips.
 

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One problem could be your posture.

Fixing it won't get you abbs. But if you have bad posture it can cause you to look like you have a beer belly when you don't.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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