nestlepurelife
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how to do it?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The_flying_dutchman said:Step 1: Read The 48 laws of Power
Step 2: Read The Art of Seduction
Step 3: Find a profession that you either like, or can tolerate, apprentice under someone, build connections during your apprenticeship. Then one the day comes start your own venture.
No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.
Remember, doctors, lawyers, dentists aren't rich because they're doctors, lawyers, and dentists....they're rich because they own their own business.
If you can run your own show, then the sky's the limit. You make the rules, you decide how the customer needs to be treated. If you have the ability....then do it. Don't leave it up to some schmo to fvck everything up. I've worked with maybe one great boss who owned the company I worked for. He was a mentor and someone I tried to emulate, our relationship went sour eventually (that's a story I tell over a beer) but either way, I learned a lot from him. Besides him, most of the business men I've worked with were out for themselves only, and cared about me only when it came to making them money.The_flying_dutchman said:No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.
And this. But if it's your business, and you take ownership, you'll love it. It won't be a jay oh bee, it will be what you do.TyTe`EyEz said:Let me translate: A lot of hard fvcking work.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.