"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Step 1: Read The 48 laws of Power
Step 2: Read The Art of Seduction
Step 3: Find a profession that you either like, or can tolerate, apprentice under someone, build connections during your apprenticeship. Then one the day comes start your own venture.

No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.

Remember, doctors, lawyers, dentists aren't rich because they're doctors, lawyers, and dentists....they're rich because they own their own business.
 
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The_flying_dutchman said:
Step 1: Read The 48 laws of Power
Step 2: Read The Art of Seduction
Step 3: Find a profession that you either like, or can tolerate, apprentice under someone, build connections during your apprenticeship. Then one the day comes start your own venture.

No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.

Remember, doctors, lawyers, dentists aren't rich because they're doctors, lawyers, and dentists....they're rich because they own their own business.

Let me translate: A lot of hard fvcking work.
 

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The_flying_dutchman said:
No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.
If you can run your own show, then the sky's the limit. You make the rules, you decide how the customer needs to be treated. If you have the ability....then do it. Don't leave it up to some schmo to fvck everything up. I've worked with maybe one great boss who owned the company I worked for. He was a mentor and someone I tried to emulate, our relationship went sour eventually (that's a story I tell over a beer) but either way, I learned a lot from him. Besides him, most of the business men I've worked with were out for themselves only, and cared about me only when it came to making them money.

If you have and idea and the drive, take the reigns, and take the risk. Fvck it, go for broke, and give it what you got. You're not living in the communist China, otherwise you'd be in a factory 12 hours a day making money for someone else. You're living in a country that supports capitalism and business(don't worry about the current regime), take advantage of it.


TyTe`EyEz said:
Let me translate: A lot of hard fvcking work.
And this. But if it's your business, and you take ownership, you'll love it. It won't be a jay oh bee, it will be what you do.
 

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I dunno what planet you are living on but China stopped being Communist 20 years ago, now its hyper capitalist and you'd have a better chance of a business succeeding here than in America land of the broke. Don't listen to all that small business cheerleading BS... its fvcking hard to get a successful biz going. If you don't have a J O B then you better have a ton of C A S H saved up to carry you for a year or two. Depending on how new you are to small business, it could take you a good year or two before you actually learn how to network and get setup. Expect that you will initially not make ANYTHING.

I've started 2 small businesses that I pumped tons of money into, only to run into small snags that completely toppled my plans. The 3rd one I started did fairly well only because I'd made so many mistakes beforehand on the previous two. The 4th is doing half decent but having a JOB making money for someone else is much easier and less stressful.

You forget to factor in the sheer amount of marketing work YOU have to do FOR FREE... unless you are selling some crazy hot new invention that people are begging for or have some super hot service that people need, then you are going to have to bust your ass FOR FREE. You are going to get snubbed A LOT, told to FOFF, have people shut doors in your face, you will have to be very think skinned. The best thing to do is to approach that sort of thing cautiously and on the weekends to start... once you build a customer base and your weekends are completely full of work hours, then you can consider expanding into your job space. Trust me mate, it sucks living with 0 dollars and having to move back into your parents house cause your business idea tanked.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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