nestlepurelife
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how to do it?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The_flying_dutchman said:Step 1: Read The 48 laws of Power
Step 2: Read The Art of Seduction
Step 3: Find a profession that you either like, or can tolerate, apprentice under someone, build connections during your apprenticeship. Then one the day comes start your own venture.
No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.
Remember, doctors, lawyers, dentists aren't rich because they're doctors, lawyers, and dentists....they're rich because they own their own business.
If you can run your own show, then the sky's the limit. You make the rules, you decide how the customer needs to be treated. If you have the ability....then do it. Don't leave it up to some schmo to fvck everything up. I've worked with maybe one great boss who owned the company I worked for. He was a mentor and someone I tried to emulate, our relationship went sour eventually (that's a story I tell over a beer) but either way, I learned a lot from him. Besides him, most of the business men I've worked with were out for themselves only, and cared about me only when it came to making them money.The_flying_dutchman said:No one becomes rich by working for someone else. The only way to be rich is to be a business owner where your success or failure is based on you alone.
And this. But if it's your business, and you take ownership, you'll love it. It won't be a jay oh bee, it will be what you do.TyTe`EyEz said:Let me translate: A lot of hard fvcking work.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.