mahon83050
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First dates are also awkward for two people who don't really know each other. Sometimes it is difficult to have fun when their is anxiety floating around.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Getting rejected alot after first dates.
- Thread starter mahon83050
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
diplomatic_lies
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You're not talking about your racial theories on dates, are you? Talking about politics can make me lose a stiffy.
mahon83050
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Racial theories? Since when do I have racial theories? Yes, I have talked bad about Muslims and Islam, but last I checked...they don't fit into the category of race.diplomatic_lies said:
Chillisauce
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haha, you seriously talk about religion on a first date?
Heres a few 'banned!' topics for first dates:
-religion (if you spent more than 2 minutes bagging muslims i personally wouldnt see you for a 2nd date)
-war
-aids
-politics
-anything negative about your social life/job/family/the place you are currently on your date
-abortion,marriage,divorce
-philosophy
-Boasting about anything (she WILL pickup on it)
- handicapped people, racism, bias' in general
- illegal acts in which you have participated
- death, the fungal infection on your arse
Basically try to avoid any topics which will cause feelings of sadness, boredom, anger from conflicting arguments, or portray you as a petty whinger (negativity)
I'll add to this list saturday, i'm off to a FBs house for a few days
Heres a few 'banned!' topics for first dates:
-religion (if you spent more than 2 minutes bagging muslims i personally wouldnt see you for a 2nd date)
-war
-aids
-politics
-anything negative about your social life/job/family/the place you are currently on your date
-abortion,marriage,divorce
-philosophy
-Boasting about anything (she WILL pickup on it)
- handicapped people, racism, bias' in general
- illegal acts in which you have participated
- death, the fungal infection on your arse
Basically try to avoid any topics which will cause feelings of sadness, boredom, anger from conflicting arguments, or portray you as a petty whinger (negativity)
I'll add to this list saturday, i'm off to a FBs house for a few days
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
Why not friendly? I love Berlin.mahon83050 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Phoenix_of_the_ashes
Master Don Juan
HAHA, seriously that quote would go perfect to Brian from Family Guy.diplomatic_lies said:
mahon83050
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Maybe that is because I do not look Northern European.....I could pass for a Turk.Phoenix_of_the_ashes said: