Well, let me keep this simple. Im a single guy in high school, who has no girl. Most of my friends all have girls, and they do more chopping than me! 20 minutes ago, we were all chilling, and we see this girl walk by, and they were all like Xiahou! Go chop her! I hesitated and didnt do anything. Not even 5 seconds my friend goes and starts walking towards her, besides the fact that he has a girl. I felt like a dumb ass at that point. 10 minutes later he comes back with her phone number, saying how she was pretty sexy. Thats when I started feeling worse. SO, Im deciding to change this fact. Help me get out of this habit!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Getting Pretty Pissed off Now...
- Thread starter Badladman
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
dude practice man. try asking your friend for some pointers. keep up with the tips on this site. anyways dude just keep practicing thats all. you will be like your friend one day. take care.
Instead of asking your friend for advice, why dont you just take it?
Mirroring effective personalities, especially those of naturals, can do wonders to your game. Try looking at his game, how he talks, how he walks, how he does EVERYTHING... Something must be working for him. If you could get to a level in which you can mirror the best parts our of each of your friends, and add your own little touch of "Aftermarket" PUA techniques, you WILL be unstoppable.
Sarge on!
Mirroring effective personalities, especially those of naturals, can do wonders to your game. Try looking at his game, how he talks, how he walks, how he does EVERYTHING... Something must be working for him. If you could get to a level in which you can mirror the best parts our of each of your friends, and add your own little touch of "Aftermarket" PUA techniques, you WILL be unstoppable.
Sarge on!
DJ Wrangler
Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
yeah thanks for connecting the lines for me champ.Badladman said:Im a single guy in high school, who has no girl.
dude, change your damn mindset RIGHT NOW. Seriously, who gives a fvck about girls that much that they get pissed about not having one? Sure you feel down, but getting pissed off? That's good.
That is...it WOULD be good if you were really pissed. If you were realyl angry you'd do soemthing about it. Read the mindset part of the DJ bible and change your whole outlook about women. Truth is, you were chicken sh1t. Too scared to do it.