"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Getting Pretty Pissed off Now...

Badladman

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Well, let me keep this simple. Im a single guy in high school, who has no girl. Most of my friends all have girls, and they do more chopping than me! 20 minutes ago, we were all chilling, and we see this girl walk by, and they were all like Xiahou! Go chop her! I hesitated and didnt do anything. Not even 5 seconds my friend goes and starts walking towards her, besides the fact that he has a girl. I felt like a dumb ass at that point. 10 minutes later he comes back with her phone number, saying how she was pretty sexy. Thats when I started feeling worse. SO, Im deciding to change this fact. Help me get out of this habit!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dimple

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Instead of asking your friend for advice, why dont you just take it?
Mirroring effective personalities, especially those of naturals, can do wonders to your game. Try looking at his game, how he talks, how he walks, how he does EVERYTHING... Something must be working for him. If you could get to a level in which you can mirror the best parts our of each of your friends, and add your own little touch of "Aftermarket" PUA techniques, you WILL be unstoppable.


Sarge on!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Potbelly

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Badladman said:
Im a single guy in high school, who has no girl.
yeah thanks for connecting the lines for me champ.

dude, change your damn mindset RIGHT NOW. Seriously, who gives a fvck about girls that much that they get pissed about not having one? Sure you feel down, but getting pissed off? That's good.

That is...it WOULD be good if you were really pissed. If you were realyl angry you'd do soemthing about it. Read the mindset part of the DJ bible and change your whole outlook about women. Truth is, you were chicken sh1t. Too scared to do it.
 
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