Getting plates in a small university?

[MK1776]

Alright, so I'm basically in a small university, less than 5,000 people. I go to parties hosted by the SAE house, and I'm tight with all of the guys there, especially this one dude who gets laid all the time. At a party he'll usually pull a lay each weekend with the occasional threeway. Just this past weekend the guy landed a foursome, literally brought 3 girls into his room and sent some snaps to all the guys.

Now get this, he's not a natural either. We got to talking and I found out he was pretty much like me in high school and managed to turn it around. The thing is, he's not all that bright or good looking and he's skinny as ****. He can talk though, and even though you can tell he's not the brightest during conversation or story telling he rocks it pretty damn well.

So, with that said, you have me. I'm pretty well spoken and i have some cool stories to tell from the military but that's it. I'm working out consistently, eating a surplus to gain some weight (currently 155 ibs at 6' 1''). and I'm working on approach. I've gotten numbers from girls around campusand gotten to know girls in my class but nothing pans out. My go to strategy is invite them to go play pool at the arcade on campus, and in person they all say they're down, but they never show or text back and it leads to some weird awkwardness during classes when I see them or say hey, even if the intention was just to hang out.

So what gives? How can I get plates if none of them pan out? I'd like to think that this guy is so successful because he has a reputation which definitely helps, but I can't even get my foot in the damn door. Another thing I'm worried about is that if I keep on approaching, I'll develop a reputation around campus as "that dude who hits on everyone"

 

[RangerMIke]

Understand that women like sex more then men... all women have inside them a major league slvt. Especially women your age in this day and age, girls are looking for experiences. You just have to come off as the guy that will not judge them. Let them know up front with your body language that you want to have sex with them. At this point in your life... in college, really all you need to do is be in good shape, and make sure the women around you know that you have a penis. Really that's it.

When you meet a girl (college girl) you have to keep running in the back of your mind :"She wants to have sex with me.", then when you are listening to her, you really don't need to do a whole lot of talking, as you look into her eyes, image you are doing crazy @ss sex with her... trust me she will pick up on this, and you will know if she is up for whatever... then... well the rest is pretty easy, just don;t be afraid to go for what you want... but you better be careful in college, women are freaks, but in college all a chick has to do is say you raped her and you a guilty until proven innocent.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

a small university, less than 5,000 people

My friend, my university campus was closing at the time and had about 250-300 people for the three years.... If I could get laid in those numbers, you can in yours.

currently 155 ibs at 6' 1''

Dude, you really need to gain some. I'm 6'1 and 220.

even if the intention was just to hang out

This is where you are going wrong. You are lying to yourself first and foremost. You don't just want to hang out. You want to get laid. If you act like an asexual, you'll be asxeual. Act like a friend, you'll be in the friendzone. If you become a desirable man, women will desire you. It's really not that complicated.

I'll develop a reputation around campus as "that dude who hits on everyone"

So, stop hitting on women and just develop a natural air of confidence. Practice just talking to chicks rather than having a motive behind it. Learn to not give a fck - this is what attracts women, not incessantly asking out every girl you see. Sounds like you're just walking round like a horny teenager right now. Let go of the thirst. I promise if you do, and just come off as a cool guy, they will start asking you to hang out.

Also, go off campus if there's not many people around. I was travelling all over the place while at uni, seeing friends etc. Don't limit yourself to such a narrow target audience, especially where competition is clearly high.

 

[MK1776]

My friend, my university campus was closing at the time and had about 250-300 people for the three years.... If I could get laid in those numbers, you can in yours.



Dude, you really need to gain some. I'm 6'1 and 220.



This is where you are going wrong. You are lying to yourself first and foremost. You don't just want to hang out. You want to get laid. If you act like an asexual, you'll be asxeual. Act like a friend, you'll be in the friendzone. If you become a desirable man, women will desire you. It's really not that complicated.



So, stop hitting on women and just develop a natural air of confidence. Practice just talking to chicks rather than having a motive behind it. Learn to not give a fck - this is what attracts women, not incessantly asking out every girl you see. Sounds like you're just walking round like a horny teenager right now. Let go of the thirst. I promise if you do, and just come off as a cool guy, they will start asking you to hang out.

Also, go off campus if there's not many people around. I was travelling all over the place while at uni, seeing friends etc. Don't limit yourself to such a narrow target audience, especially where competition is clearly high.

I hear you. I'm working hard in the gym and eating big trying to put on the pounds. You're right about wanting to get laid, but I don't get how talking to someone and asking them to hang out and play some pool will make me give off the wrong vibes. I've tried what Ranger said above, and with no luck I went into this period of not giving a **** about getting laid, and that still didn't pan out for me either. I think for now I'm just going to drop the ball on trying to hang out with chicks and focus on the gym, school, and travelling around. There's obviously something wrong with the way I behave or the vibe I give off and I just can't figure it out. I don't think it's confidence because people tell me I seem like a confident and assured guy, but maybe around girls it just all falls apart. I can't really tell.

 

[Bokanovsky]

The thing is, he's not all that bright.

That's not really a disadvantage. Women aren't necessarily attracted to superior intellect. If they were, science geeks would be banging the hottest girls. But that never happens, except maybe in movies. In real life, you are far more likely to see a hot girl with a drug dealer with below 80 IQ than with some genius Rhodes Scholar type.

 

[marmel75]

I'm working out consistently, eating a surplus to gain some weight (currently 155 ibs at 6' 1'').

Dude, no offense but at 155 lbs and 6' 1" you need to be at the Chinese Buffet 3 times a day with a few Big macs for snacks washed down with the biggest milkshake you can find.

 

[MK1776]

Dude, no offense but at 155 lbs and 6' 1" you need to be at the Chinese Buffet 3 times a day with a few Big macs for snacks washed down with the biggest milkshake you can find.

It's a work in progress!

 

[Von]

Create story telling... speak in matters of stories, create a link with the girl, make her laught, be sexual.

If you in a ''English'' university.... let's say English Canada, USA, England... the girls are DTF as soon they take alcohol (from my experience).

Just don't stare at them, show confidence,humour, speak in stories and get sexual.

Ask your friend how he's doing it.