"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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getting past LTR need ur advice

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I hve a match chick waiting for me to come over her house in like an hr. I went there b4. We made out. I can prob take it further tonight. Here's my problem...
I'm just not into chicks since my breakup 3 mnths ago. No. I'm not gay!

Is or has anyone experienced this b4? I just wanna move on already. I have 2 other chicks I can get with. One I can def bang. Just wanna hear from someone that's been thru this to give me their experience
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah man, I've been there. Eventually it goes away. I had a rebound lay within the first month, but then I just didn't sleep with anyone for like 4 months. I didn't want to, so I didn't force it. I have since gone on several individual dates with women of varying quality, could have slept with a few of them, didn't want to see most of them again, and am currently in limbo about a 2nd date with a couple of them.

Overall stagnant. It happens. But when it rains it pours, so I'm not too worried about it.
 
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There's nothing to worry about man, this is very typical.

I hate to break it to you, but it doesn't improve quickly. It takes a long time sometimes to get back into your full-on groove (can be years). Also, I've found, once you really get back into things, it happens FAST. You'll get this fvcking crazy-ass urge to go out and meet every girl you can. You'll know what I mean when it happens. It's weird.

But you're fine, just take it slow with girls. It'll help your game to be that way anyway (nonchalant)

Oh and, the more you force it, the more frustrated you'll probably get.. So just let things roll.. Try and focus on other things and you'll come back around soon.
 
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rocket87 said:
Oh and, the more you force it, the more frustrated you'll probably get.. So just let things roll.. Try and focus on other things and you'll come back around soon.
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You're right about the frustration because it is getting worse. I think I've been out with over a dozen girls so far (between ages 29-43) but I feel like I'm digging deeper into the mud

I'm 40 so I'm def not a youngin but girls never were a problem. So hopefully I'll still have the mojo before I'm too old to get it up & I'm taking out my teeth to clean em haha

Thx guys...I'm usually giving advice so I appreciate it.

BTW I cancelled my date tonight
 
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