"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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getting past LTR need ur advice

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I hve a match chick waiting for me to come over her house in like an hr. I went there b4. We made out. I can prob take it further tonight. Here's my problem...
I'm just not into chicks since my breakup 3 mnths ago. No. I'm not gay!

Is or has anyone experienced this b4? I just wanna move on already. I have 2 other chicks I can get with. One I can def bang. Just wanna hear from someone that's been thru this to give me their experience
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah man, I've been there. Eventually it goes away. I had a rebound lay within the first month, but then I just didn't sleep with anyone for like 4 months. I didn't want to, so I didn't force it. I have since gone on several individual dates with women of varying quality, could have slept with a few of them, didn't want to see most of them again, and am currently in limbo about a 2nd date with a couple of them.

Overall stagnant. It happens. But when it rains it pours, so I'm not too worried about it.
 
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There's nothing to worry about man, this is very typical.

I hate to break it to you, but it doesn't improve quickly. It takes a long time sometimes to get back into your full-on groove (can be years). Also, I've found, once you really get back into things, it happens FAST. You'll get this fvcking crazy-ass urge to go out and meet every girl you can. You'll know what I mean when it happens. It's weird.

But you're fine, just take it slow with girls. It'll help your game to be that way anyway (nonchalant)

Oh and, the more you force it, the more frustrated you'll probably get.. So just let things roll.. Try and focus on other things and you'll come back around soon.
 
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rocket87 said:
Oh and, the more you force it, the more frustrated you'll probably get.. So just let things roll.. Try and focus on other things and you'll come back around soon.
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You're right about the frustration because it is getting worse. I think I've been out with over a dozen girls so far (between ages 29-43) but I feel like I'm digging deeper into the mud

I'm 40 so I'm def not a youngin but girls never were a problem. So hopefully I'll still have the mojo before I'm too old to get it up & I'm taking out my teeth to clean em haha

Thx guys...I'm usually giving advice so I appreciate it.

BTW I cancelled my date tonight
 
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