Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting past excuses from women not to set up date

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How do you overcome this:

You get a girl's number via a cold approach.

You call her and suggest doing an activity on a certain date. She says that she can't make a commitment at the present time, but to call her back on that day. You give rebuttals and then logically trap her to the point where both of you know she is BS'ing but she still keeps saying " I like the idea, but something might come up that day" or other "what if" BS.

What do you do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You next her? You should never 'logically prove to a woman xyz' -- that makes no sense. This doesn't mean you don't call her on her ****, but that you don't tell her off when you next her.
 

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Nothing can be done but backing off and trying later. When a woman is doing this she is invariably "turning you down" the excuses have nothing to do with wether or not she will go out with you. I mean, you can embarrass her into admiting that she has no reason NOT to go out with you other than her interest level, but that will do nothing but get a painful fact out in the open when she was trying to be tactful, at the very least it will NOT raie her interest level. Again...back off and try again...you need a higher interest level here. (sometimes it's her and not you...recent breakup/met a guy she's into etc.)
 

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You: OMG, you are SUCH a total FLAKE! [playful]
HB: No I'm not! [outrage]
You: You're are like my little sister, so totally disorganized! I don't even want to go out with you anymore! (Credit TD)
HB: No, no! I'm not disorganized!
You: I just want to adopt you as my own little sister and help you organize all your stuff.


Note, this assumes that your phone game is pretty upbeat and not logical and boring. This is totally illogical, emotional, pushes her away, negs her, forces her to qualify herself, roleplays, removes her reality and leaves only your reality, and leaves open the option of a day2.

Field tested, PUA approved.

The reality is though is that if you had played a tight game, then she WOULD be interested in a meet. Consider this, if you had put in an extra 30 minutes of game time with her, your phone game time could be correspondingly short and easier to set up a meet. In fact, during your field time with her, be MEET ORIENTED. The #-close is just a small step, talk about meeting up, future project, etc.
 
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