"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Getting over some stupid emotional ****?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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neghitzbrah

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You were hurt bc the relationship ended? How did it end? I have a few suggestions for you:

1) THink about all of the bad ****. This is what led to the breakup regardless of what happened. The relationship wasn't healthy. If you're missing it, then you're missing hte good times and ignoring the bad times dude.

2) Talk to other chicks. Itll help you forget about her and give you something else to think about and look forward to.

3) Be more social. You don't need to talk to chicks, only. Talk to guys, old people, couples, random people. It'll make you a new person and a more attractive dude. Build some social proof.

good luck man
 
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Thinkin about the bad past will make you feel more bad and virce versa. A don't care attitude is the best you can have, jerks use that all the time.
 
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It wasn't a relationship. We weren't even dating. I liked her, she sometimes acted like she liked me. Then sometimes she didn't. Sex happened a couple of times, but I'm pretty sure that once was just to make someone jealous (I could be wrong, she may have just wanted sex). It ended ****ed where I found out what kind of person she was (a VERY LOW QUALITY girl), and I basically told her that she makes me sick, and that I'm ashamed that I actually really liked her.
 
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