"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Getting over some stupid emotional ****?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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neghitzbrah

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You were hurt bc the relationship ended? How did it end? I have a few suggestions for you:

1) THink about all of the bad ****. This is what led to the breakup regardless of what happened. The relationship wasn't healthy. If you're missing it, then you're missing hte good times and ignoring the bad times dude.

2) Talk to other chicks. Itll help you forget about her and give you something else to think about and look forward to.

3) Be more social. You don't need to talk to chicks, only. Talk to guys, old people, couples, random people. It'll make you a new person and a more attractive dude. Build some social proof.

good luck man
 
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Thinkin about the bad past will make you feel more bad and virce versa. A don't care attitude is the best you can have, jerks use that all the time.
 
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It wasn't a relationship. We weren't even dating. I liked her, she sometimes acted like she liked me. Then sometimes she didn't. Sex happened a couple of times, but I'm pretty sure that once was just to make someone jealous (I could be wrong, she may have just wanted sex). It ended ****ed where I found out what kind of person she was (a VERY LOW QUALITY girl), and I basically told her that she makes me sick, and that I'm ashamed that I actually really liked her.
 
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