"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Getting out there after years of depression and isolation

J.Peterman

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I have a bit of a problem. I don't know what the atmosphere is like on this forum so I might get the **** flamed out of me, but anyway ...

I am 18, nearly 19 and still a virgin. It was not meant to happen this way. But, when I was about 14 I broke my ****. Couldnt even get it erect, and it has been like that until very recently. Man, it was absolutely devastating. I cried like a little girl. I was ready to have sexual relations at about 14, but then suddenly I just couldnt. But, since most people didn't, it was ok and I just went along like everything was fine. Between 16 - 18 I really started to deteriorate, didn't go out much at all, lost quite a few friends ... and I think in this time more then likely developed an inferiority complex, and anxiety. I am now way behind the 8 ball.

The great thing now though, is that I am fixed, and have quality erections again, thank god. But, obviously the problem is getting myself out there. It is going to be hard. Most people would not expect me to be a virgin. I am afraid that if I have sex with somebody at my university, and obviously when my performance is pure ****, the word will spread and I will just be seen as a loser. I have considered using a prostitue ... but I think it will really hurt what pride I have left to always know I had to pay somebody to **** me.

I just need some advice. Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jay Jay

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You "broke" your *****? How the **** did you manage that?

Okay, don't worry...

About being **** in bed; just have fun. Thats the most important thing in being a good ****. Being fun.

I once couldn't get it up for a chick I picked up (too many Es that weekend). Went down her when my partner in crime decided not to show and she said it was the best sexual experience of her life when I apologised for MR Floppy.

Read sir chancealots advanced sexual technique over in tips. Check Dave Shades masterful lover. Even with no practice with your pecker you'll **** better than most guys with those tips.

Get out there!

JJ
 

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troll

broke your ****:eek: :rolleyes:

at least your original, i give you points for that.
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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If this is serious...

Your desire to learn to be a better lover is already leaps and bounds ahead of most of the dudes in college.

Dude seriously, go read some books at Barnes & Noble. There are literally 100s of them about how to be a better lay. Learn to eat pu$$y and you'll be fine.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Call_Me_Daddy

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snorida44x said:
I keep telling people this, go invest in a few programs from David Deangelo. Most of the questions you have are answered there. Start with the ebooks. Here's the link: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/11493/catalog


...then when you have the basics, come back and ask questions. We can't help you through every step of the way, you gotta get out their and practice from your resources.
Save your money. Don't buy garbage. Get it off kaza.a , emule, or torrent instead.

David DeAngelo is a ****ing phony. That's not even his real name anyways. And his advice is complete bull****.
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
David DeAngelo is a ****ing phony. That's not even his real name anyways. And his advice is complete bull****.
Give me a fvcking break....on a bad day he's probably three times the PUA you are. I think the reason he uses a fake name is pretty obvious. If you started "dating" seminars and writing ebooks on how to get laid would you want your real name associated with that stuff?
 

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I agree. David D and DYD completely changed my life. I paid DD for the e-book and went on to buy his original CD series and his second CD series sexual communication. All very well worth the $. I don't regret it for a second. I think it's a disservice to the community to download it off ***** or the like

I mean would you rather shell over 100000s of dollars in dates or 30 bucks for the ebook, 150 for cd series, to CHANGE YOUR LIFE to where girls are paying for your dates.
 

LA_Chico

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Bro, we literally have a "broke-****"
 
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